The only free thing about this site is viewing and creating a profile. You pay to chat, you pay to read chats. You can’t mention in your profile that you can’t chat. Can’t put in an email address, can’t even say how ong you’ll pay for the privelage of chatting with people in the age range that Match.com determines you can view and chat with. No, you don’t get to choose an age, a type….you don’tbget to choose much of anything. The people on here are no more serious than the people on the free sites where you can choose everything about what you are looking for. They cant even readbyour messages because they dont want to pay for a crappy site!!